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I am single because I...

I wonder why me being single is such a big deal for them. Contrary to their common belief, I am not that confident like how I actually look like. Insecurities, frustrations, and some sort of depressions hurdle my way to entering that kind of relationship.

That is how I view romantic relationships — never intentional. You love a person not because you want to but because it just happened. You never force to love; you never force to be loved. I pursed my lips once and then smirked a bit before finally giving a shot of a demure smile.

We shall commit into a relationship not for the longing of completeness but because we want to share our completeness with someone who is complete enough. We consider it a jigsaw puzzle because we know that the pieces are already complete from the beginning, we just have to arrange it accordingly. Therefore, I am single because I am still on the verge of being complete enough. This reminds me of my physics class wherein we tackled about different kinds of error — systematic and random errors.

I wonder where error of falling in love should fall under. I am single because I want a real commitment.

I'm single because I have...

To find a man who might not be your best friend, but is always your best company. A man who knows that love is not achieved by just physical attraction and lust but mainly by character and principles. A man who believes that sexual intercourse is not just an act of intimacy and pleasure but a language of two souls protecting, admiring, and treasuring each other. A man you know you can define the span of forever with. I am single because I believe that time is the only method that can keep the fire burning.

You shall give your time to a person not because the person needs it but because you wholeheartedly want it to be given. You make time for each other not because you have to, but because you want to. Therefore, I am still single because I still lack the time [literally]. How can I give time for others if the time I give myself does not suffice the time I drastically needed?

Lastly, I am still single because I believe that romantic relationship is a matter of fair coexistence. To love somebody is not to make someone happy per se, it is more of making yourself happy and then subconsciously making someone happy. To love is not to compare your past experiences to the current nor to expect or assume something more for the future. It is mainly to enjoy the existence of the present and feel the growing tender of current emotions. Therefore, I am single because I believe I have to diminish my insecurities, frustrations, and depression on my own so that when I finally meet that significant one, I know I can coexist fairly with him.

Without a bit of hesitation, my answer is neither. I am single because I choose Why am i still single thought catalog dating be single. We will never be completely ready but we can be Why am i still single thought catalog dating enough.

I believe that sooner or later I will reach the state of being ready enough.

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