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It wasn't until the '90s — around the time Sex and the City introduced us to the Rabbit — that people in the mainstream spoke about sex toys out loud. But these days, it's rare to walk into any pharmacy without seeing a selection of vibrators right next to the lube and condoms. Fifty percent of women start using sex toys in their 20s. Thirty-five percent of Kiwis have at least one in their possession.

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But that era is long over. So instead of giggling at the mention of cock rings and Rabbits, use the following tidbits to launch open and honest and not bashful conversations.

There's nothing to be embarrassed about. People of all relationship statuses use sex toys. They're also not just for straight women. There are plenty of toys out there for same-sex couplesas well as toys for men. Another nasty rap and outdated notion is that sex toys are only for those whose sex lives are lacking.

Moreover, enjoying sex solo with a vibrator or other Girl having sex with dildo toy doesn't affect one's odds of enjoying sex with another personas Charlotte from Sex and the City was so worried about.

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Sex toys enhance, not ruin, sex with a partner. Toys like vibrators can change that. Orgasms are great for stress and depressionthey can help lower the risk of breast cancer in both men and women, and even aid in curing the common cold. Orgasms allow women to have control not just over their pleasure, but over their health, too. And while all sex toys are made to enhance the already pleasuring experience, certain products and companies really go above in the beyond the call of duty for women's orgasms.

Thanks to one small device, the wearer can focus on sex with her partner without Girl having sex with dildo up the opportunity for enhanced pleasure. Anal plugs and vibrators, restraints, whips, paddles, ropes, clamps, blindfolds and electrostimulation toys are all technically 'gender neutral,'" Marin said.

The versatility of such gender-neutral toys can encourage creativity.

It can add an element of novelty that most sexual relationships are sorely lacking," Marin told Mic. For some, the very mention of sex toys can make them erupt in an uncomfortable giggle, as if they're 13 all over again. Anyone who's ever been to a sex toy party has probably seen this phenomenon in action. Sex toys Girl having sex with dildo also help a man climax even if he can't get an erection. As men age and their parts just aren't working the way they used to, toys can become an essential part of sex.

I've had so many clients that told me that once they blindfold their lover, they can do things and say things. They're 10 times bolder than they've ever been. It liberates them," says Cadell. If you enjoy anal play, then butt plugs and anal beads are great choices.

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