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Dear Dana is a bi-weekly advice column for humans who engage in romantic relationships. My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year now, and I think we have a problem.

It was fun and made for some really exciting evenings. But a year into this relationship, he still needs to watch porn before having sex with me.

What should I do? You should dump him.

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The porn itself may not be a deal breaker for you, but his refusal to engage with you on this topic should be. The thing I need you to know is that his use of porn has everything to do with him and nothing at all to do with you.

Yes he sure would.

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Because he is using porn to replace himself, not you. He wants to be someone else, disassociated from his own body, detached from his own sexuality.

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People forget how frighteningly intimate sex can be. You are naked, with another person, all of your moles and your stray hairs and your skin that bounces and moves and ripples in full view. You know, basic, boring, fake male gaze nonsense.

Do you masturbate to porn? Can you get an erection without porn? For instance, if he was willing to talk to you about this, you could work on compromise positions such as trying to wean him off of porn while you two are having sex.

You could choose the porn, you could move from live porn to static Porn sex with boyfriend, you could move from static images to sound recordings only, you could get him to close his eyes and imagine what he wants to see, you could get him to practice moving his focus away from his pleasure to yours and then back again. You could go away together to a place with no TV and no wifi and get crazy and naked in the woods.

Allow Porn sex with boyfriend to break up with this man who you have a fundamental incompatibility with. Sex is enormously important in a relationship and the fact that he is wholly discounting your position, arguing that because you were cool with him using porn a few times before, you, therefore, have consented to use it for the rest of your sex life with him, is such a huge pile of bullshit I can barely take it and neither should you.

Dana Norris once went on 71 internet dates, many of which you may read about here. You may find her on Twitter at dananorris.

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